Why reading with your preschooler is important
Sharing stories, talking and singing every day helps your child’s development in lots of ways.
You’re getting your child familiar with sounds, words, language and, eventually, the value and joy of books. This all builds your child’s early literacy skills, like the ability to listen to and understand words. It also helps her go on to read successfully later in childhood.
Reading stories stimulates your child’s imagination and helps him learn about the world around him.
And reading is also a great time for you to bond with your child and share time together.
Sharing books with your preschooler
At this age and stage, reading with your child is all about spending special time together, and having fun by enjoying the language and illustrations in picture books. Here are some tips that can help you and your preschooler make the most of your reading time.
Looking at the book
Before you start, ask your child some questions about the book:
- Who are the author and illustrator of the book?
- What do you think this story is about?
- Who might be in it?
- What do you think will happen?
Reading the story
- Vary the pace of your reading, as well as how loud you read. Changing your voice and expression for different characters can also be fun.
- Encourage your child to use her finger to trace the words while you read them.
- Let your child turn the pages of the book himself.
- Ask your child some questions about the story – for example, ‘What do you think happens next?’, ‘Why is the baby happy?’ and ‘Who has the ball?’
- Chant or sing repetitive phrases and words together.
Looking at letters, words and punctuation
- Point out the differences between letters and words, and the difference between a lower-case and capital letter. For example, ‘There is a capital M. Can you see how it’s bigger than this lower-case m?’
- Point out different punctuation marks, including full stops, exclamation marks and question marks. Explain what these mean – for example, ‘There is a question mark. When we see one of those, we know that somebody is asking a question’.
- When you see words printed in bold or large font, point these out and explain how this changes the ways that we say those words. For example, ‘Look at how big the word BOOHOO is. The baby must be crying very loudly’.
- Ask questions about the names and sounds of letters.
- Play ‘find the letters and words’ games, especially with the letters in your child’s name.
Other reading activities
- Help your child make up her own stories and drawings to go with them.
- If your child can’t read words yet, encourage your child to tell you a story based on the pictures in a storybook.
General tips for budding readers
- Make a routine, and try to share at least one book every day. Sharing a book can be a nice way to start and finish the day. A comfortable and favourite reading place can be part of the routine.
- Turn off the TV or radio so your child can focus.
- Hold your child close or on your knee while you read so he can see your face and the book.
- Try out funny noises and sounds – play and have fun!
- Involve your child by encouraging talk about the pictures and repeating familiar words.
- Let your child choose the books. Be prepared to read favourite books over and over again!
What to read with your child
There are so many books to choose from that it can be hard to know where to start.
As a broad rule, young children often enjoy books that have good rhyme, rhythm and repetition. In fact, one of the ways that children learn is through repetition and rhyme.
In the preschool years (ages 3-5 years), your child might especially enjoy:
- alphabet, shape, size and counting books
- books that tell simple stories, especially ones with rhythm and repetition
- books about families, friends and going to school
- books with characters who are about the same age as your child and characters who have quirky traits
- books that use humour and have a sense of fun – for example, a character who uses a funny word, or who is silly or even ‘naughty’
- books relating to particular interests – for example, books about dinosaurs, fairies, football or animals. Some preschoolers are very interested in non-fiction books, including books about the stars, the ocean, inventions, food and travels around the world.
Here are some books for you and your preschooler to explore:
- Alexander and the terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day by Judith Viorst
- An Asian 1, 2, 3 of animals by Bronwyn Bancroft
- An Asian ABC of animals by Bronwyn Bancroft
- Are we there yet? by Alison Lester
- Early learning big book of Asian nature by Steve Parish
- The Hairy Maclary collection by Lynley Dodd
- Koala Lou by Mem Fox
- Let’s get a pup by Bob Graham
- Naughty agapanthus by Barbara Macfarlane
- Olivia by Ian Falconer and others in this series
- One fish, two fish, red fish, blue fish by Dr Seuss
- Owl babies by Martin Waddell and Patrick Benson
- Possum magic by Mem Fox
- Squish rabbit by Katherine Battersby
- The cat in the hat by Dr Seuss
- The rice bag hammock by Shaeeza Haniff
- The very hungry caterpillar by Eric Carle
- The wheels on the bus by Penny Dann
- Za-Za’s baby brother by Lucy Cousins.
Why not visit your local library? It’s free to join and borrow. The staff will be able to recommend books for you and your child to enjoy.
Or if your child attends child care, kindergarten or preschool, you could talk to his teachers or carers to get some ideas. Some preschools allow children to borrow books each week or to bring a special book from home to share with the group.